Monday 27 December 2010

Daydream Believer is no longer a daydreamer!!

Wow!!! One hell of a xmas this year, i'll get to the reason in a minute but just wanna tell you about my lovely xmas!!
We have some strange traditions in my mother's house were we have to wait for eveyone to be there to open presents and one by one in a circle we open them, 5 days later woop it's done. I do feel abit spoilt this year a wii and wii fit, straightners and a new phone to mention a few so thank you to my lovely family and friends.

On the whole pregnancy front well most of my family no now and Craig also told his Mum and Dad on xmas day which was nice they were really pleased and must of been straight on the phone to Craig's auntie's and uncle's aswell as grand parents because not long after we left i got a phone call from his auntie to tell me " i told you so". The reason for that was she saw a psychic earlier on in the year who said a family member would be having a baby which would be a beautiful boy born in the summer of next year. Spooky i'd say!!!!!! Will just have to wait and see whether she's right about it being a boy!

Well the most amazing thing happened on Boxing Day apart from my gorgeous sister in law Amelia or Milly to me and most others 21st birthday. I couldn't ask for a better sister in law she's kind, funny and she won't mind be saying so a little bit bonkers. But the best thing she is, is PREGNANT!!! Woop for the past 2 yrs milly and my brother Adam have been trying for a baby with no success she has been quite emotional about it but low and behold a miracle at the right time of year....

So excited i now have a baby buddy, someone i can get fat with, share all my baby issues with and also a family me and craig are gonna live with so our two babies can grow up together. I couldn't of wished for a better xmas ( well apart from the flu ).

Lv Me and X

Friday 24 December 2010

A relief....

After a day of mixed emotions and getting on at Craig, we decided to tell my mum - as hard as it was, she seemed to take it pretty well. Well no screaming and shouting anyway!! She's isn't 100% happy but thats just cos of our situation (being at home still and skint).

So now pretty much all my closest family know and seem to be happy for us...

Doing well had no sickness Yet!! Just mainly feeling tired and irratated alot. It's now christmas eve getting a little excited for tomorrow eek just not excited by the fact i can;t drink all over xmas :-(

Hope to get some pics on soon!!

Tuesday 21 December 2010

Mixed emotions :-s

I'm sick of feeling tired all the time, i sit on the sofa and within 5 mins i'm snoozing. I need a massive boost of energy cos i hope i haven't got this for the whole pregnancy.

Real issues of when to tell the parents keep arising, i'd really like to tell them on xmas day but i think Craig is worried in case there not happy and it'll ruin xmas. I'm more worried that they find out and there hurt because we've not told them!!! God decisions decisions! And these are just the start of them thanks to my best mate Katie who keeps bringing up planning and decisions we need to make, Yep i no but trying to get Craig to talk and plan is like talking to a brick wall. Response zero......

Try explaining why i'm not drinking over xmas to anyone who knows me is gonna be hard work!!!

Sunday 19 December 2010

9 weeks ish???

Having never done a blog before this is all new to me and a little strange, but after some tempting off my sister in law thought why not!!

Well a little in sight into who i am, My Names Kelly Elce and i'm 26 yrs old still live at home with my parents after moving out and moving back several times Oh the joys!! I have a lovely boyfriend Craig Edwards who's 24 we have been together for just over 20 months (not that i'm counting) we don't officially live together but he does stay at mine every night.

After 5 years on the contraceptive implant me and Craig discussed me having it out due to weight gain and my temper tantrums. So in July it was removed we weren't planning on having a baby but had both decided if it happened then we'd both be happy. My periods came back as you'd expect every month i'd be around a week late but then November's due date came and went, 4 weeks late i became a little suspicious as the home pregnancy tests kept coming up negative i decided to visit the doctors where i gave a urine sample and had to wait for a result a call came saying the result was Inconclusive and was advised to do another in the next 7 days, inconclusive what the hell this made me slightly confused as i'd never heard of this happening before. 4 days later i decided to do another home test as i'd bought a twin pack the last time and had one left over. So Sunday 12th December 2010 early morning i did the test whilst Craig was still sleeping, left the test a few minutes but didn't think twice about looking at it as was just expecting a negative as this is what i was used to but low and behold there they were 2 dark pink lines. I was taken aback at first, nervous and excitement at the same time, i took the test upstairs to Craig in bed his first word was Yay!!

This week has been surreal after only telling a handful of people and none of them include our parents, we've decided not to tell anyone else untill after the first scan just in case we have any problems. Not really any symptons as yet except probably hormonal. Craig cannot do anything right whatever he does i moan, shout and generally get stressed for no reason. I guess all i can say is Craig get used to it!!!!

So now a week later with it all confirmed at the doctors and a midwife appointment booked for the 18th Jan 2011 (seems ages away) has it all sunk in yet, the answer to that would be NO.......